Asalam o alaikum & Khussh amdeed!
Our specialty in today’s Motivation Menu is
“ASK YOURSELF !”
Everyday when you wakeup, feeling tired, feeling annoyed, at times not feeling like feeling anything.
But just remember that each day you do not wakeup for someone else to identify your mood swings and bloody care for them . You just have to be your own caretaker. You just have to wakeup from your clumsy and never ever gonna come true dreams if you still be the same each day.
You behave like a machine or something because each day you wakeup to live the next 9-5 the same way. You take just 2 days off from your work to live the next 5 days the same f***ing way. You do not like Monday’s. You wait the entire week for Friday’s or for weekends. You actually do not hate Monday’s , you do not love your job or love your work or anything that you do in your everyday life. You do not love the process honestly. You do not want to taste the essence of the process. And unless you do not taste that essence you cannot achieve what your heart desires.
Because you are an idiot. This is not what you dreamt for. This is not what you want. This is not what it is to live a life. This is not what you ever wanted. This is not what is making you happy and obviously you cannot be because this is not what you want to achieve . Your heart desires for something more , something worthy. That you feel accomplished. That you feel content. That you feel happy.
■ BUT THE QUESTION IS…..
▪ Do I feel content and happy with everything I do ?
▪ Is there anything that needs to be change ?
▪ If something needs to be so ,What needs be changed ?
▪ Am I even able to make a change ?
▪ How can that particular change makes me satisfied ?
All these queries makes you even more confused and everything seems so much messed up, complicated and nothing else. But these are the questions that we need to ask ourselves .
Yes ! This is it ! This is the time !
You gotta get out of your so called life that is your routine and answer yourself these questions , with all honesty.
Look ! Being honest with your ownself is one of the toughest ever thing to do so but you gotta have to have some guts for this because it is all about you. It is about your own happiness , it is about your own satisfaction. It is about your damn life.
When it is about happiness it is not always about wealth, fame ,vacations etc. Basically it is all about being in love with your inner self first and foremost. Being in love with your inner beauty , being in love with whatever you do which makes you happy is what makes you content and satisfied. That is what is called being happy. And what I believe is that ,
“There is no mantra for happiness if you find happiness in whatever you do and you do it with all your love and heart.”
▪ BEING HONEST TO YOURSELF :
It is to be honest while answering those above mentioned questions.
▪ JUST GO WITH THE FLOW :
Answer these questions just in one go , do not over think because you might get confused.
▪ THINK ABOUT THE NON ESSENTIALITIES :
After answering these questions now think about that particular thing which is nothing but just a crap (unimportant) but still it is in your priority list.
▪ ELIMINATE THE NON ESSENTIALITIES :
After you find out that unimportant priority , think about to replace it with something you like and gives you happiness doing that. Because what I believe is that people cannot just immediately change their habits at once , they can replace them with something good and productive .
▪ LEARN TO START WITH YOURSELF :
After replacement , make it a habit that you will start your each day doing something new , good and productive. It really helps you to find your passion , it helps you to expose yourself to learn and be someone who is always ready and eager to learn something new.
▪ YOU ARE FREE NOW :
Each new day , learn something new. It will definitely help you to meditate. It will provide you with inner calmness, peace and patience. And you will feel free and easy.
Always remember !
Happiness is not something that you can earn easily , it is a feeling that can only be felt when you are in love with yourself and in love with whatever you do. So , if you wanna be happy and wanna find happiness just love and just love . And start with yourself and then you can spread happiness and only happiness everywhere.
Ask yourself these questions and start with yourself today. Just a small message of love and happiness from a loving fellow. Hope you guys find this blog helpful and interesting too and appreciate my efforts in your commenst below. I would love to read them .